Sixteen Big Myths About College and Success in Your Early 20’s

I don’t normally write long posts, but it needed to be done.

Over at the Praxis blog I address just about every stupid bit of advice young people routinely get about their education, career, and future.

All these myths are based on the Conveyor Belt Mentality, which is as dangerous as it is dumb.

If you’ve heard any of these bits of advice about college or jobs it’s probably time to call bullshit and build better reasons for taking the path you choose…

  • “It’s worth it”
  • “It’s free so you can’t turn it down!”
  • “Only drop out if you have a billion dollar idea”
  • “You’re already this far, so it only makes sense to finish.”
  • “Don’t burn any bridges.  Keep your options open.”
  • “Build your resume”
  • “Follow the rules”
  • “Pick a good major. Pick a growing industry”
  • “It will be good to have just in case”
  • “Find companies with job openings and apply”
  • “Get qualified and certified so you can do X”
  • “Get a good starting salary”
  • “Get something with your degree”
  • “Make your parents proud”
  • “Earn and invest your money”
  • “Get a job with a good future”

Read the full post with my explanation for why the above are false here.  Then share it with a young person in your life.

 

73 – Tom Woods on Being an Intellectual Entrepreneur

New York Time Best-Selling Author, popular podcaster, speaker, and intellectual entrepreneur Tom Woods joined the podcast to discuss what motivates him day in and day out, why he left academia to do things his own way, and how he’s learned to be both an ideas person and a business person wrapped into one.

Tom has multiple NYT best-selling books, but that made him a target for his academic colleagues and the intelligentsia.  The Ivory Tower doesn’t smile upon popular books in general, especially the kind Tom tends to write which, to borrow from his podcast opener, “Shred the 3×5 card of conventional opinion.”

Tom has a way of embracing debate and handling criticism, but he’s human.  He shares in this interview some of the nasty things lobbed at him and the difficulty he had responding and not holding grudges or being fueled by hate.

This is not a political episode.  Whatever you think about Tom’s opinions, I suspect you’ll gain tremendous value and insight from the conversation and gain a respect for Tom as a person.  He’s genuine and transparent and I must say this was one of the single most enjoyable interviews I’ve done.

You can find out much more about Tom at www.tomwoods.com

This and all episodes are available on SoundCloud, iTunes, YouTube, and Stitcher.

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Random Recap for Health and Happiness

  • After a bad night’s sleep and a hard-to-get-going morning writing something – anything – always makes me feel better.
  • Current reading list: Be Slightly Evil, But What If We’re Wrong, Without Their Permission, The Graveyard Book, High Output Management, Notes on the Synthesis of Form, Tempo.
  • There is almost nothing better than a new T-shirt that fits perfectly.
  • If you want to see just how petty and enthused I can get, watch a good sporting match with me.  If you want to believe I’m a largely reasonable human being, don’t.
  • Drying off after a shower is really annoying, especially in warm weather.  It takes too long and you never get totally dry.  I want a booth to step into with high-pressure air blowers like they have at car washes.  Maybe a dash of baby powder at the end to prevent any remnants of wetness?
  • I often dream of days where I do nothing but read all day, but in reality I can’t read for more than 30 minutes straight without needing to break it up.
  • All great stories take shape after the actual events occur.  It doesn’t look like a story while it’s happening.  The narrative arc is crafted in retrospect.  This is why what actually happens in real-time is less important than how it’s framed after the fact.
  • I’m still not sure any books about how a particular person or company succeeded are worth reading.  But I still read them.
  • Why do men seem to be more motivated by the idea that no one believes in them than women?  Or is this a misnomer?
  • If consumers are so dumb that they buy whatever marketers sell them, wouldn’t it be much scarier to give power to elites to curb marketing messages?  Wouldn’t hapless consumers simply look for orders from those elites instead?  Isn’t it less dangerous to have easily duped people in a world where tons of companies compete to dupe them vs. a few elites duping them “for their own good”?
  • Almost no one has enough faith in self-interest.
  • Preaching to the choir is far superior than preaching to anyone else.  Echo chambers and bubbles are more productive than going out of your way to step outside of them.
  • Reading people whose ideas you disagree with is vastly overrated.
  • Your gut is probably smarter than you think, but listening to it is harder than you think.
  • Steph Curry, despite looking great last night, is clearly still not himself.  I contend that his movement is still limited by the MCL sprain.
  • Olympic basketball isn’t that cool anymore.
  • “Entrepreneurship” is overused but there’s no going back so it might as well cease meaning someone who starts a business and take on the economic meaning of a descriptive category of action.  That still doesn’t mean you should describe yourself as one on LinkedIn if you haven’t started a business.
  • Now I feel better.  Time to kick this day in the butt.
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Episode 72: FwTK – Books, Rationing, Bandwagons, Failure Fetishes, and More

TK and I cover a wide range of topics and I kind of went nuts taking more mic time than normal.  Host privilege is real.

Mentioned in the episode: The Machinery of Freedom, Be Slightly Evil, Without Their Permission, Neil Gaiman, management books, Notes on the Synthesis of Form, Herbert Spencer, Tempo, The Gervais Principle, The Obedience-Entitlement Matrix, The Matrix (movie), Moral Technology, Generation Z, Coursera, Gatekeepers, Google AdWords, “Faithfully” by Journey and lots of other stuff I’m forgetting.

Thanks to Zak Slayback for great ideas and recs, and Peter Neiger and Kelly Hackman for listener questions.

Recommendations: The Great Divorce by C.S. Lewis, Social Statics by Herbert Spencer.

This and all episodes are available on SoundCloud, iTunes, YouTube, and Stitcher.

71 – Ten Minute Take: Strategy vs. Gut Instinct

*Yes, I’ve changed the format of the numbering and titles of episodes.  I hope this makes it simpler and more consistent.  From here on out every episode will be numbered with a whole number and the word “episode” will not precede it.  Sorry for the change and any confusion!

A few basketball inspired thoughts on whether following your gut is better than planning an elaborate strategy.

This and all episodes are available on SoundCloud, iTunes, YouTube, and Stitcher.

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Episode 70: Lemonade Stands > Latin, with Homeschool Entrepreneur Abbey Lovett

Abbey Lovett is a recent highschool grad about to start Praxis.  She’s always experimenting and believes entrepreneurship is more important for kids than academic subjects. She had a lemonade stand with employees at age of nine and grew hungry for more.

We discuss her education, the importance of debate, why her entrepreneurship camp failed, and how she made the decision to apply for Praxis.

Check out her blog at lovettup.com.

This and all episodes are available on SoundCloud, iTunes, YouTube, and Stitcher.

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Special Episode: *Three Important Super Serious Things*

Don’t play around when it comes to your life and decisions and society and goodness and science and the numbers and stuff.

It’s all really, really important.  Don’t be flip and glib with this stuff.  Do what the experts and averages tell you.

You’ll thank me when you’re fitting in snugly.

This episode brought to you by unthinking peer pressure and the age-old wisdom of non-risk taking self-proclaimed elites who fight diligently to keep you safe from your deviant dreams day in and day out. (But especially days in).

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Episode 69.5: FwTK – Heartbreak, Loss, Change, and Space

My family and I just moved to a new house and it’s been a surprisingly hard adjustment.  TK and I discuss how to handle moving, change, grief, and heartache, as well as what a sense of space means and how humans interact with light and their built environments.

Mentioned in the episode: Christopher Alexander, Too Many Dirty Dishes, Tim Ferriss, Peter Thiel, Aslan, In Defense of Metaphor in Science Writing, Jeff Till’s Five Hundred Years, George Lakoff, Your Brain is Not a Computer, Metaphors and Magic,

Recommended: Space and Place, Landscapes of the Soul, A Timeless Way of Building

This and all episodes are available on SoundCloud, iTunes, YouTube, and Stitcher.

Sometimes I Get Irritated

I can tell you right now it doesn’t matter what industry. There are tons of jobs available everywhere. Companies are hungry for talent.

But most job seekers suck. Most of them suck mostly because of years of schooling. It’s given them bad habits, fear, lack of confidence, arrogance, and monetary demands due to thoughtless debt.

Opportunity is everywhere. School is killing the ability of young people to seize it.

Screw school. Go do cool stuff. Go do hard stuff. Go do different stuff. Build things. Try things. Get good at things.